Let’s be honest, in every friend group, there is that one person who suddenly announces, “Just got my first plot in Ibeju-Lekki”
The group chat goes wild with congratulations, emojis flying everywhere, but deep down, something shifts. Someone starts calculating their savings. Another opens Google: “affordable land in Lagos”.
It’s not envy, exactly. It’s the silent competition no one talks about, the unspoken race to buy property first.
The New Symbol of Success
For many young Nigerians, property ownership isn’t just about security anymore, it is about status.
We have moved from flexing cars and gadgets to flexing deeds of assignment. Owning property is now a loud statement: “I am doing something right with my life.”
But here is the catch, that same mindset is quietly pushing people into property mistakes they could have avoided.
Why Comparison Is Dangerous
Peer pressure doesn’t always look like your friends mocking you.
Sometimes, it looks like:
- Buying land you never verified because “it’s selling out fast.”
- Signing documents you didn’t fully read.
- Rushing into off-plan deals that sounded “too good to miss.”
These are some of the most common property mistakes young Nigerians make, not because they don’t know better, but because they don’t want to be left behind.
It’s the quiet voice that says, “If Tola can do it, why can’t I?” But property is not a race. It’s a plan.
Lessons From the Silent Competition
Here is the truth, Your friend’s financial journey isn’t yours. They might have saved for years, have family support, or have different risk tolerance. You? You just need to be smart, not fast.
Because the worst thing you can do is buy property just to feel included. What happens next? You are stuck with a deal that drains you, stresses you, or worse, turns out fraudulent.
How to Avoid the “Silent Pressure” Mistake
- Do your homework before you buy.
Don’t let anyone rush you. Always verify property documents and ownership details. - Buy what fits your pocket.
Real estate isn’t “one size fits all.” What matters is progress, not pace. - Ask for professional help.
A verified due diligence process saves you from emotional, and financial headaches. - Think long-term. It’s not just about owning property, it’s about owning peace of mind.
Conclusion
The silent competition will always exist. Someone will always buy before you, post before you, flex before you. But here is what truly matters, buying right, not first.
So, take a deep breath. Plan smarter. And remember: Real success isn’t loud. It’s lasting.
If you are planning to invest soon, make it intentional. Avoid the traps of comparison and make informed, verified decisions.
At Trustcrow, we help young Nigerians buy safe, verified property, no rush, no pressure, no regrets.
